Beginner BDSM

Published on September 8th, 2017


Here's my first Q&A video! Questions sent to me are discussed, and this one consists of 2 questions: One about introducing a new "vanilla" partner to BDSM, the other about gaining confidence as a top.

What to Look for/What to Avoid in Tops

Published on September 18th, 2017



"For those of us on the bottom/sub side, what do you think we should look for in a top? What are some red flags, and what are some good signs?"

Should We Get Rid of Foreplay?

Published on November 5th, 2017


What is foreplay? What is sex? Why do we use the word "foreplay"? Here sharing some of my thoughts.

Sexual Fluidity

Published on November 23rd, 2017


In this video I share my thoughts on changes in sexual orientation or gender identity, and how learning about sexual fluidity can help lessen (dare I say abolish?) discrimination and judgments of and within the queer community.


Many Past Sexual Partners

Published on October 16th, 2017


"I'm afraid to tell my new partner that I've had a lot of sexual partners"


Sex, slut shaming, and myths!

Poly/Mono Relationships

Published on October 2nd, 2017


Question: "How do you start learning about poly[amory] when you thought you were monogamous, but are now in a poly/mono relationship?"